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به خاطر دارم زمانی که در اوج نا امیدی به سر می بردم خداوند مرا با یکی از برنامه های دوازده قدمی آشنا کرد و در این راه مسیر زندگی ام تغییر کرد.
بدون شک یکی از دلایلی که باعث پایبندی من در این داستان شد ،  نبود هیچگونه انگیزه انتفاعی در افراد قدیمی تر بود . در ابتدا با بدبینی، اندکی بعد با شک و تردید و تعجب و در انتها با درک اینکه اینجا با تمام دنیا متفاوت است با این مسئله روبرو شدم. برنامه به من روشی ساده اما نه چندان آسان را پیشنهاد کرد و در گام پایانی مرا موظف به رعایت مسائل مطرح شده در یازده گام قبلی نمود و متعهد به رساندن این پیام به آنانیکه درد می کشند و در انتظار راهی برای درمانند. پس از چندی با یکی از روشهایی که برای رساندن این پیام توسط تعدادی از همدردانم در محیط های مجازی راه اندازی شده بود آشنا شدم. مهمترین مسله ای که در روزهای اول با آن روبرو بودم احساس عدم امنیت در این مکانها بود چرا که رعایت ستنها در این محیط بسیار مشکل و عملا غیر ممکن به نظر می رسید پس از چندی دریافتم حضور خداوند در این مکان مثل بقیه جاها پر رنگ است و او به گونه ممکن هدایتگر ماست. افرادی که به این مکان می آیند مثل افرادی که به جلسات می ایند رنج کشیده اند و مورد عنایت خداوند، خدمتگزاران نیز وظایف سنگینی به عهده دارند و در مورد خدمتگزارن این تالار تا آنجا که بنده مطلعم یهترین تلاش را برای حفظ امنیت تالار می نمایند.

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اما در پایان و خطاب به همه عزیزان، اعتماد یکی از اصول زیربنائی بهبودی است اما ما باید بدانیم که در زمان و مکان مناسب به افرادی که احساس می کنیم زیربنای روحانی محکمی در زندگیشان دارند اعتماد کنیم.
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اوایل فکر می کردم به همه افرادی که 12 قدم رو کار کردند چه زن و چه مرد می تونم اعتماد کنم. فکر می کردم کسی که مُهر 12 قدمی رو خورده یعنی انتهای اعتماد ولی :
بعدها فهمیدم که اینطور نیست. درسته که 12 قدم اصول روحانی هست که به هر انسانی کمک می کنه تا روحانیت رو توی خودش پرورش بده، اما واقعیتش این هست که باید این اصول رو زندگی کرد نه اینکه فقط آنها رو آموزش دید.
فهمیدم که بیماری ما انسانها به شکلهای مختلف خودش رو نشون می ده و انکار و توجیه یکی از قوی ترین قسمتهای اون هست. متوجه شدم که این من هستم که به دیگران اجازه می دم که از من سوء استفاده کنند و احساسات من رو به بازی بگیرند.
فهمیدم که من هم باید اصولی رو رعایت کنم و حواسم به دورو برم باشه، چشمهام رو باز کنم و مسئولیت اعتماد رو به گردن دیگران نندازم، حماقت و بی ملاحظه گی به خرج ندم و بعد اسمش رو اعتماد بزارم و در انتها توقع داشته باشم کسی از این نوع اعتماد (بی مسئولیتی) من سوء استفاده نکنه.
ضمن اینکه متوجه شدم :
اعتماد یکی از اصول زیربنایی برای زندگی می باشد. در صورتی که هیچ گونه اعتمادی در بین انسانها وجود نداشته باشد هیچ انسانی نمی تواند از انسان دیگر برای دریافت کمک یاری بگیرد.
در انجمنهای 12 قدمی انسانهای درد کشیده ای وجود دارند که عجز آنها در مقابل نقصهایشان آنها را به اینجا کشیده است. 12 قدم به انسانها کمک می کند تا اصول روحانی را دریافت کرده و در جهت کاهش نقصهای خود گام بردارند. هنگامی که ما در قدم 4 شروع به نوشتن ترازنامه می کنیم بعد از مدتی متوجه می شویم که این خود ما بوده ایم که وسایلی فراهم کرده ایم تا دیگران از اعتماد ما سوء استفاده کنند.
در بسیاری از زمانها ما می خواستیم که مسئولیت کارهای خود را به عهده نگیریم و این اشتباهات رو به گردن دیگران بیاندازیم. ما می خواستیم به همان گونه که راحت تر هستیم (بدون تلاش و تفکری) کاری رو انجام بدهیم و در انتها اگر نتیجه متناسب با خواسته ما نبود، دیگران را محکوم می کردیم و می گفتیم آنها از اعتماد ما سوء استفاده کردند، آنها رفتار صادقانه ما را ندیدند و... . اما یادمان رفته بود که این خود ما بودیم که برای فرار از کوچکترین تنش همه چیز را به دیگران واگذار کرده بودیم، ما سعی نمی کردیم خودمان رو به زحمت انداخته، احساساتمان رو کنترل کنیم، دعا کنیم تا راه درست را دریابیم، ما فقط می خواستیم راحت باشیم.
و در انتها باید توجه بشود قرار گرفتن برچسب 12 قدمی بر روی یک فرد به معنی این نیست که آن فرد خالی از نقص شده و ما احساس کنیم که می توانیم بدون در نظر گرفتن بسیاری از اصول به آن فرد اعتماد کنیم. این اعتماد چیزی جزء حماقت نیست و دوباره ما را در چرخه ای از رنجش می اندازد، رنجشی که ما مسئولیت رفتار اشتباه خودمان را به گردن 12 قدم انداخته ایم.
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« : 23 اوت 2012، 10:50:33 am »

2- ایا اعتقاد مذهبی دارید یا خیر؟توضیح دهید.
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« پاسخ #1 : 25 اوت 2012، 10:47:19 am »

من اعتقاد دارم که مسلمان هستم و شیعه
واز بچگی این دین را پذیرفتم ولی
به واسطه خلع بیماری حتی از طرف خانواده چیزهایی که دیدم
مثل قسم دروغ و...........
ومن با تکرار اشتباه انها کمکم از دین خود فاصله گرفتم به همین علت دنبال این دین هم نرفتم :rose:
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« پاسخ #2 : 17 اوت 2014، 03:31:22 pm »

بله من از بچگی وتا قبل از اعتیادم اعتقاد به اسلام و شیعه داشتم واین را پذیرفته بودم ولی با شروع  شدن بیپاری در من و افکار اشتباهی که داشتم دیدن او  اشتباهات مذهبی دیگران کم کم اعتقاد مذهبی من هم کم شد و به هیچ دینی اعتقاد نداشتم
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in mid November last year, I also interviewed a place in the town of Changping abandoned event. A newly born baby girl from the 13 day, because the body deformity was brutally abandoned parents. After that night I received good reports, borrow a friend's car together first abandoned sent to Changping hospital, of course,occhiali ray ban outlet, the hospital to do not belong to them, when the time comes out of the question is not a good deal on the grounds, let us give the police, but it was a child the situation has been very critical, if not timely treatment and care, may at any time of danger, I passed the hospital to do the work, they finally agreed to first help heal. The baby placed temporarily in Changping hospital, my friend and I accompany picked up the abandoned well intentioned people rushed to the Changping police station for help. The understanding of the situation that will take good care of the baby to the hospital, completing relevant procedures after sending to the orphanage. Later, the news came back after editions,air max 95 pas cher, although busy until the middle of the night is very hard, but they think or do the things worth.
< p > in the past: efforts to implement a deep social responsibility recall of the news reports they have done in the past year, weight, can weigh on the table is not much. However, trivial or to pay attention to people's livelihood and the sufferings of the masses, always keep in mind that a news shouldering social responsibilities, which is the newspaper's leadership has been teaching and our newspaper has always advocated the newspaper purposes. Remember in early December last year, I received a Baoliao said, Dongguan east railway station is a Hunan guy paid Guanghu doubt be cheated to the drudgery of the field of black brick, also beaten the money home. I arrived at the scene through the multi inquire,scarpe golden goose, understand the situation, finally found the guy to find the guy's home phone and his brother's phone, and finally learned that the truth of the matter is not the material that people say. Young man is because the brain some slow reaction, care not only to their relatives, but repeated family abuse and assault, then actually be parents to Dongguan east railway station abandoned and no longer cared. The same day,golden goose outlet, I contacted his brother,charm pandora outlet, working in Shenzhen, to do his ideological work, saying that he came to pick up his brother back, but it has not come yet. Waiting for the family to meet him, I through multi contact,pandora outlet online, Huangjiang a well intentioned people informed of the situation and help shelter him, Guanchiguanzhu for the purchase of clothing. After my repeated persuasion, the family finally took over the past. All the draft although not reported, but also reflect our media workers for a sense of social responsibility.
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< p > another is I from XX in half a year to XX in October has been of concern to bridge the new Wando half years old children suffering from heart disease needs a huge surgery and no money to cure the news. The matter after the first newspaper reports, he unit leaders and colleagues and the community well intentioned people have generously, Qiaotou town also on behalf of the government issued a fund-raising initiative,air max pas cher, called on all sectors of the community is to offer the compassion,golden goose saldi, and achieved good social effects. Later, other media have also done to follow up.
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   I opened the drawer and took out ten automatic folding aid tents and small miniature microphone, micro camera. Sitting on the speeding car, came to the scene of the accident. I took out ten tents, according to the remote control, the tent became as big as the building, so that the people are living in, so I started to do the interview. To record a curtain. Do the live report.
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