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به خاطر دارم زمانی که در اوج نا امیدی به سر می بردم خداوند مرا با یکی از برنامه های دوازده قدمی آشنا کرد و در این راه مسیر زندگی ام تغییر کرد.
بدون شک یکی از دلایلی که باعث پایبندی من در این داستان شد ،  نبود هیچگونه انگیزه انتفاعی در افراد قدیمی تر بود . در ابتدا با بدبینی، اندکی بعد با شک و تردید و تعجب و در انتها با درک اینکه اینجا با تمام دنیا متفاوت است با این مسئله روبرو شدم. برنامه به من روشی ساده اما نه چندان آسان را پیشنهاد کرد و در گام پایانی مرا موظف به رعایت مسائل مطرح شده در یازده گام قبلی نمود و متعهد به رساندن این پیام به آنانیکه درد می کشند و در انتظار راهی برای درمانند. پس از چندی با یکی از روشهایی که برای رساندن این پیام توسط تعدادی از همدردانم در محیط های مجازی راه اندازی شده بود آشنا شدم. مهمترین مسله ای که در روزهای اول با آن روبرو بودم احساس عدم امنیت در این مکانها بود چرا که رعایت ستنها در این محیط بسیار مشکل و عملا غیر ممکن به نظر می رسید پس از چندی دریافتم حضور خداوند در این مکان مثل بقیه جاها پر رنگ است و او به گونه ممکن هدایتگر ماست. افرادی که به این مکان می آیند مثل افرادی که به جلسات می ایند رنج کشیده اند و مورد عنایت خداوند، خدمتگزاران نیز وظایف سنگینی به عهده دارند و در مورد خدمتگزارن این تالار تا آنجا که بنده مطلعم یهترین تلاش را برای حفظ امنیت تالار می نمایند.

باستحضار کاربران عزیز می رساند گزارشهائی در مورد ارسال پیغامهای خصوصی غیر مرتبط از سوی بعضی از کابران به خدمتگزاران تالار رسیده است... امنیت تالار و کم کردن هزینه خسارات احتمالی به کابران مهمترین دغدغه خدمتگزارن تالار می باشد و در صورت تکرار این موضوع حساب کاربری، کاربر متخلف حذف می گردد.

اما در پایان و خطاب به همه عزیزان، اعتماد یکی از اصول زیربنائی بهبودی است اما ما باید بدانیم که در زمان و مکان مناسب به افرادی که احساس می کنیم زیربنای روحانی محکمی در زندگیشان دارند اعتماد کنیم.
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اوایل فکر می کردم به همه افرادی که 12 قدم رو کار کردند چه زن و چه مرد می تونم اعتماد کنم. فکر می کردم کسی که مُهر 12 قدمی رو خورده یعنی انتهای اعتماد ولی :
بعدها فهمیدم که اینطور نیست. درسته که 12 قدم اصول روحانی هست که به هر انسانی کمک می کنه تا روحانیت رو توی خودش پرورش بده، اما واقعیتش این هست که باید این اصول رو زندگی کرد نه اینکه فقط آنها رو آموزش دید.
فهمیدم که بیماری ما انسانها به شکلهای مختلف خودش رو نشون می ده و انکار و توجیه یکی از قوی ترین قسمتهای اون هست. متوجه شدم که این من هستم که به دیگران اجازه می دم که از من سوء استفاده کنند و احساسات من رو به بازی بگیرند.
فهمیدم که من هم باید اصولی رو رعایت کنم و حواسم به دورو برم باشه، چشمهام رو باز کنم و مسئولیت اعتماد رو به گردن دیگران نندازم، حماقت و بی ملاحظه گی به خرج ندم و بعد اسمش رو اعتماد بزارم و در انتها توقع داشته باشم کسی از این نوع اعتماد (بی مسئولیتی) من سوء استفاده نکنه.
ضمن اینکه متوجه شدم :
اعتماد یکی از اصول زیربنایی برای زندگی می باشد. در صورتی که هیچ گونه اعتمادی در بین انسانها وجود نداشته باشد هیچ انسانی نمی تواند از انسان دیگر برای دریافت کمک یاری بگیرد.
در انجمنهای 12 قدمی انسانهای درد کشیده ای وجود دارند که عجز آنها در مقابل نقصهایشان آنها را به اینجا کشیده است. 12 قدم به انسانها کمک می کند تا اصول روحانی را دریافت کرده و در جهت کاهش نقصهای خود گام بردارند. هنگامی که ما در قدم 4 شروع به نوشتن ترازنامه می کنیم بعد از مدتی متوجه می شویم که این خود ما بوده ایم که وسایلی فراهم کرده ایم تا دیگران از اعتماد ما سوء استفاده کنند.
در بسیاری از زمانها ما می خواستیم که مسئولیت کارهای خود را به عهده نگیریم و این اشتباهات رو به گردن دیگران بیاندازیم. ما می خواستیم به همان گونه که راحت تر هستیم (بدون تلاش و تفکری) کاری رو انجام بدهیم و در انتها اگر نتیجه متناسب با خواسته ما نبود، دیگران را محکوم می کردیم و می گفتیم آنها از اعتماد ما سوء استفاده کردند، آنها رفتار صادقانه ما را ندیدند و... . اما یادمان رفته بود که این خود ما بودیم که برای فرار از کوچکترین تنش همه چیز را به دیگران واگذار کرده بودیم، ما سعی نمی کردیم خودمان رو به زحمت انداخته، احساساتمان رو کنترل کنیم، دعا کنیم تا راه درست را دریابیم، ما فقط می خواستیم راحت باشیم.
و در انتها باید توجه بشود قرار گرفتن برچسب 12 قدمی بر روی یک فرد به معنی این نیست که آن فرد خالی از نقص شده و ما احساس کنیم که می توانیم بدون در نظر گرفتن بسیاری از اصول به آن فرد اعتماد کنیم. این اعتماد چیزی جزء حماقت نیست و دوباره ما را در چرخه ای از رنجش می اندازد، رنجشی که ما مسئولیت رفتار اشتباه خودمان را به گردن 12 قدم انداخته ایم.
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 I'm on my way back to my dad and said, "the changes in my hometown are really big! Dad replied: "this is a microcosm of the building of a new socialist countryside."
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 the children had already been in bed, sitting in front of their yard, looking at the sun in the morning. The hen is leading the chickens to do the "chicken Health Exercise", there is a chicken fell a "chicken" eating mud, I quickly ran over to help the baby up. Chicken mother to my "giggle giggle," called a non-stop,hogan outlet, it seemed to me to say thanks!
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 lunch, my mother heard outside a few ducks in the name, asked sister what is called. Sister heard the duck, casually replied: "a donkey." The whole family has set the whole room roaring with laughter.
 Description: Six composition in rural rural small
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< p > there are carrying bamboo Lou caught eels, with a lantern, in fishy wet soil,hogan sito ufficiale, see a called "eye in the sky" (Monopterus albus vents), eye alignment and pinch grabbed Monopterus albus thrown into the basket, or with a small shovel gently shovel, even the mud with eel to shovel into the bamboo basket.
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< p > walking on the green lawn, a bow, and was surprised to found a pink small flowers, simple and small, pluck it put in the palm of the hand, can not help but feel that the creator of the great! April woke up, I looked up and saw the green gauze like fairyland, the moonlight, soft like water, vaguely like smoke. West, vague came insects "chirp chirp" sound. To the East, and the dog barking of a twice, "bark", like a rude Meng Han, breaking the silence of the night...
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broke the news: Wang Feng is the illegitimate daughter of a paternity test
 Wang Feng daughter small apple (source: picture)
 Wang Feng responded: you must do paternity testing in order to do account
The secret love Wang Feng model girlfriend pull a paternity test for her daughter
< p > Huashang newspaper January 18 hearing yesterday,hogan outlet online, supermodel Ge to microblogging broke the news, singer Wang Feng recently took her, for their daughter paternity. Wang Feng then update micro-blog said a paternity test in order to give the child on the account. And yesterday afternoon Ge Hui Jie and Wang Feng Bo, also exposed they were a period of time: Ge Hui Jie Wang Feng born a woman after two people break up.
 yesterday afternoon,nike tn requin soldes, supermodel Ge Hui Jie micro-blog broke the news: "Wang Feng, you really good? Don't be so hypocritical! Do you remember when you took me and my little apple to do a paternity test? Wang Feng! I tell you, I will write a song called "I hate you" so, I will write out the facts! I swear to God Ge Hui jie! The paternity of the thing, as I made! My dead family......" Reporter Wang Feng phone call to verify, but he hang directly.
 Ge Huijie (source: picture)
 Wang Feng (source: picture)
< p > Ge Hui Jie broke after soon, Wang Feng bursts 3 micro Bo response to this matter, acknowledged illegitimate daughter "little apple" 5 years old this year, he took his daughter and led the paternity test done is to give the child to the account, just that the incredible things happen, just want to on this originally should respect the woman, now has changed out of recognition of women, and all the crowd of people said a few facts: my daughter was five years old, because of the feelings of the past period failed, the lovable, pitiable >
< p > online news, from Zhejiang Ge Hui Jie,scarpe hogan outlet, 2004 at the age of 17 in the CCTV recorded programs know Wang Feng at the time of the guests, then the difference of 16 years old,hogan outlet, two people fall in love quickly, then Ge Hui Jie back to Wang Feng gave birth to a daughter,hogan sito ufficiale, nicknamed "little apple", but this section of sentiment to the third year is over. Wang Feng was a young Ge Hui Jie can't do break up as an understanding wife and loving mother. Ge Hui Jie said: "this I do not deny that I was more fun and to the child without any sense of responsibility, and I especially like to play computer games,tn requin pas cher, don't tube children." Reporters on the Ge Huijie blog, but also to see her posted a lot of online game screenshot. "He told me he was in pain, and that life could not go on,chaussure louboutin pas cher, and then he broke up. At that time I was 19 years old, although very sad, but I did not insist,hogan outlet, I am very concerned about face......"
 since then, little apple is raised by the mother of Wang Feng. After the break up of the Ge to basic didn't go to see the child, "little apple followed her grandmother and I feel very relaxed, her dad and aunt also often go to see her. She does not lack love." It is reported that GE Hui Jie and Wang Feng are currently single.
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2005 school year first semester grade five primary school teacher work plan
 the original 53 Students in this class,hogan outlet, this semester to 3 students, 56 students, including 30 boys and girls 26. The students in this class can observe the school discipline, learn from time to time, and do what they should do. Most of the students can finish the homework on time, and writing the correct, but there are also a few students, usually naughty, always need urge teachers and parents. In the new year to continuous efforts, strive to continue to move forward, to achieve better results, and establish a good class atmosphere, the students into ideals, morality, culture and discipline of the new generation, do a qualified socialist builders and successors.
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The the Great Wall was hit and killed the families of the elderly has received 600 thousand yuan compensation | the Great Wall hit and killed the old man
< p > News (Reporter Lin Fei ran) much concern for the elderly Great Wall is foreign woman knocked down after the killing, today (May 11). Today evening, reporters from the families of the deceased Cui Hongfang understanding to, belong to this afternoon received 60 million yuan of compensation, and Cui Hongfang old man's ashes have been in Sifeng Jiamusi Hill Cemetery buried on 5 July.
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< p > previously reported, April 8 at 11 o'clock in the morning,scarpe hogan outlet, 70 years old of Heilongjiang old lady Cui Hongfang in Beijing Mutianyu Great Wall tour, a downward spanking Canadian woman knocked, died on the spot.
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< p > the event process full of twists and turns, in the police not to criminal case after, families through civil court filing, reconciliation between the two parties and reach a compensation agreement.
 pension deficit, not a terrible thing. The relevant departments and relevant experts, don't worry. The facts are clear, the life of the Chinese people in extension, the pension system is in the process of reform, these are national endowment management departments have to face the normal cannot normal things, but let the general public to pay practice is really wrong.
 today evening,hogan outlet, Cui Hongfang eldest son Sun Bin confirmed to reporters, the family has received notice of the people's Court of Huairou district this morning, and in the afternoon received a 600 thousand yuan compensation.
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< p > families, said families have on May 7, will Cui Hongfang remains of the old man back to Jiamusi, and after finishing the funeral parade let the old man buried, and died years of her husband buried in Sifeng Jiamusi Hill Cemetery.
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 Sun Bin said, the most worried about the case is that the case will be affected by the identity of the perpetrators,hogan outlet, but today the overall process of compensation is very smooth." Its many users expressed gratitude for the concern and support of the event.
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   However, came to the front of the 33 waiting area, you will feel it "different", bench in dribs and drabs sitting some of the passengers, they or twisted askew "share" in the seat, the head buried in the collar of his coat to sleep; or playing down the phone to kill before boarding the boring light, the waiting area is extremely cold and cheerless.
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