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به خاطر دارم زمانی که در اوج نا امیدی به سر می بردم خداوند مرا با یکی از برنامه های دوازده قدمی آشنا کرد و در این راه مسیر زندگی ام تغییر کرد.
بدون شک یکی از دلایلی که باعث پایبندی من در این داستان شد ،  نبود هیچگونه انگیزه انتفاعی در افراد قدیمی تر بود . در ابتدا با بدبینی، اندکی بعد با شک و تردید و تعجب و در انتها با درک اینکه اینجا با تمام دنیا متفاوت است با این مسئله روبرو شدم. برنامه به من روشی ساده اما نه چندان آسان را پیشنهاد کرد و در گام پایانی مرا موظف به رعایت مسائل مطرح شده در یازده گام قبلی نمود و متعهد به رساندن این پیام به آنانیکه درد می کشند و در انتظار راهی برای درمانند. پس از چندی با یکی از روشهایی که برای رساندن این پیام توسط تعدادی از همدردانم در محیط های مجازی راه اندازی شده بود آشنا شدم. مهمترین مسله ای که در روزهای اول با آن روبرو بودم احساس عدم امنیت در این مکانها بود چرا که رعایت ستنها در این محیط بسیار مشکل و عملا غیر ممکن به نظر می رسید پس از چندی دریافتم حضور خداوند در این مکان مثل بقیه جاها پر رنگ است و او به گونه ممکن هدایتگر ماست. افرادی که به این مکان می آیند مثل افرادی که به جلسات می ایند رنج کشیده اند و مورد عنایت خداوند، خدمتگزاران نیز وظایف سنگینی به عهده دارند و در مورد خدمتگزارن این تالار تا آنجا که بنده مطلعم یهترین تلاش را برای حفظ امنیت تالار می نمایند.

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اما در پایان و خطاب به همه عزیزان، اعتماد یکی از اصول زیربنائی بهبودی است اما ما باید بدانیم که در زمان و مکان مناسب به افرادی که احساس می کنیم زیربنای روحانی محکمی در زندگیشان دارند اعتماد کنیم.
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اوایل فکر می کردم به همه افرادی که 12 قدم رو کار کردند چه زن و چه مرد می تونم اعتماد کنم. فکر می کردم کسی که مُهر 12 قدمی رو خورده یعنی انتهای اعتماد ولی :
بعدها فهمیدم که اینطور نیست. درسته که 12 قدم اصول روحانی هست که به هر انسانی کمک می کنه تا روحانیت رو توی خودش پرورش بده، اما واقعیتش این هست که باید این اصول رو زندگی کرد نه اینکه فقط آنها رو آموزش دید.
فهمیدم که بیماری ما انسانها به شکلهای مختلف خودش رو نشون می ده و انکار و توجیه یکی از قوی ترین قسمتهای اون هست. متوجه شدم که این من هستم که به دیگران اجازه می دم که از من سوء استفاده کنند و احساسات من رو به بازی بگیرند.
فهمیدم که من هم باید اصولی رو رعایت کنم و حواسم به دورو برم باشه، چشمهام رو باز کنم و مسئولیت اعتماد رو به گردن دیگران نندازم، حماقت و بی ملاحظه گی به خرج ندم و بعد اسمش رو اعتماد بزارم و در انتها توقع داشته باشم کسی از این نوع اعتماد (بی مسئولیتی) من سوء استفاده نکنه.
ضمن اینکه متوجه شدم :
اعتماد یکی از اصول زیربنایی برای زندگی می باشد. در صورتی که هیچ گونه اعتمادی در بین انسانها وجود نداشته باشد هیچ انسانی نمی تواند از انسان دیگر برای دریافت کمک یاری بگیرد.
در انجمنهای 12 قدمی انسانهای درد کشیده ای وجود دارند که عجز آنها در مقابل نقصهایشان آنها را به اینجا کشیده است. 12 قدم به انسانها کمک می کند تا اصول روحانی را دریافت کرده و در جهت کاهش نقصهای خود گام بردارند. هنگامی که ما در قدم 4 شروع به نوشتن ترازنامه می کنیم بعد از مدتی متوجه می شویم که این خود ما بوده ایم که وسایلی فراهم کرده ایم تا دیگران از اعتماد ما سوء استفاده کنند.
در بسیاری از زمانها ما می خواستیم که مسئولیت کارهای خود را به عهده نگیریم و این اشتباهات رو به گردن دیگران بیاندازیم. ما می خواستیم به همان گونه که راحت تر هستیم (بدون تلاش و تفکری) کاری رو انجام بدهیم و در انتها اگر نتیجه متناسب با خواسته ما نبود، دیگران را محکوم می کردیم و می گفتیم آنها از اعتماد ما سوء استفاده کردند، آنها رفتار صادقانه ما را ندیدند و... . اما یادمان رفته بود که این خود ما بودیم که برای فرار از کوچکترین تنش همه چیز را به دیگران واگذار کرده بودیم، ما سعی نمی کردیم خودمان رو به زحمت انداخته، احساساتمان رو کنترل کنیم، دعا کنیم تا راه درست را دریابیم، ما فقط می خواستیم راحت باشیم.
و در انتها باید توجه بشود قرار گرفتن برچسب 12 قدمی بر روی یک فرد به معنی این نیست که آن فرد خالی از نقص شده و ما احساس کنیم که می توانیم بدون در نظر گرفتن بسیاری از اصول به آن فرد اعتماد کنیم. این اعتماد چیزی جزء حماقت نیست و دوباره ما را در چرخه ای از رنجش می اندازد، رنجشی که ما مسئولیت رفتار اشتباه خودمان را به گردن 12 قدم انداخته ایم.
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سوال 4 قدم ششم
« : 24 ژوئیه 2015، 05:56:19 pm »


    آیا به خوبی مفهوم آمادگی را درک کرده ام ؟
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پاسخ : سوال 4 قدم ششم
« پاسخ #1 : 24 ژوئیه 2015، 06:03:43 pm »

    آیا به خوبی مفهوم آمادگی را درک کرده ام ؟
     شروع آمادگی من از قدم 2 بود، وقتی که روشن بین شدم و عجزم را و خودمحوریم را پذیرفتم .
    قدم ششم تسلیم من برای رها کردن خودمخوری است . آگاهی و شناخت نواقصم و تمایل برای عملکرد درست آن است .
    آمادگی برای من انجاست که می بینم نواقصم برایم مشکل ساز شده ، منو خسته کرده و تمایل ندارم از آنها استفاده کنم . آمادگی برای من این است که قدمهای قبلی را درست برداشته و روی ترسهایم کار کرده باشم ، و ایمانم را به اندازه کافی تقویت کنم تا بتوانم عاجزانه از خداوند کمک بگیرم .
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« پاسخ #2 : 05 آوریل 2016، 10:49:15 am »

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 the first concern about the moon, it is from the mother kind of talk. A flashing light stars forever. Always like singing it: "the stars twinkle......" Every beautiful night sky, Lonestar autumn night, mother told me that there will have the moon in laurel, >
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 she has her own charm, but also the beauty of the stolen.
< p > her around the earth's rotation, rotation, seems to be a scholar who guarded the king, her day and night to rotate, in night tireless for our lighting seems to be a lamp enormous lights, radiation is very bright moonlight......
 she has long been recognized,golden goose saldi, but she is a thief.
 tonight is fifteen. Can't sleep, leaning on the balcony to see the moon......
 in the eyes of men of literature and writing she is graceful and colorful. Sometimes "according to the moon between pine, clear spring stone upper" noble; sometimes "loose tiers and thousands of emerald, the point on a single pearl charming; sometimes" moon out of the mountains, between the boundless sea of clouds "mystery. She is a vast expanse of the universe is a bright star, she sometimes like a jade plate, sometimes as jade hook, changeable, it is is guessing. She is the neighbor of the earth, and may become the second "cradle of life""......
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« پاسخ #3 : 25 آوریل 2016، 02:49:11 am »

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< br / > Beethoven grew up living in a poor family, but he was very fond of music, so he in my spare time playing music, grow up, Beethoven really become the musicians, but unfortunately is: have entered middle age he became deaf, which to the musician is a terrible thing ah, but his ideal: to create the Ninth Symphony, not realize it, he in the pursuit of the ideal, with mouth nursed stick touched the keys to feel the sound, in order to pursue, he paid a great effort, finally, the Ninth Symphony was born.
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Love 33 years is not afraid of ASUS EeePC1215B let confidence everywhere
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