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به خاطر دارم زمانی که در اوج نا امیدی به سر می بردم خداوند مرا با یکی از برنامه های دوازده قدمی آشنا کرد و در این راه مسیر زندگی ام تغییر کرد.
بدون شک یکی از دلایلی که باعث پایبندی من در این داستان شد ،  نبود هیچگونه انگیزه انتفاعی در افراد قدیمی تر بود . در ابتدا با بدبینی، اندکی بعد با شک و تردید و تعجب و در انتها با درک اینکه اینجا با تمام دنیا متفاوت است با این مسئله روبرو شدم. برنامه به من روشی ساده اما نه چندان آسان را پیشنهاد کرد و در گام پایانی مرا موظف به رعایت مسائل مطرح شده در یازده گام قبلی نمود و متعهد به رساندن این پیام به آنانیکه درد می کشند و در انتظار راهی برای درمانند. پس از چندی با یکی از روشهایی که برای رساندن این پیام توسط تعدادی از همدردانم در محیط های مجازی راه اندازی شده بود آشنا شدم. مهمترین مسله ای که در روزهای اول با آن روبرو بودم احساس عدم امنیت در این مکانها بود چرا که رعایت ستنها در این محیط بسیار مشکل و عملا غیر ممکن به نظر می رسید پس از چندی دریافتم حضور خداوند در این مکان مثل بقیه جاها پر رنگ است و او به گونه ممکن هدایتگر ماست. افرادی که به این مکان می آیند مثل افرادی که به جلسات می ایند رنج کشیده اند و مورد عنایت خداوند، خدمتگزاران نیز وظایف سنگینی به عهده دارند و در مورد خدمتگزارن این تالار تا آنجا که بنده مطلعم یهترین تلاش را برای حفظ امنیت تالار می نمایند.

باستحضار کاربران عزیز می رساند گزارشهائی در مورد ارسال پیغامهای خصوصی غیر مرتبط از سوی بعضی از کابران به خدمتگزاران تالار رسیده است... امنیت تالار و کم کردن هزینه خسارات احتمالی به کابران مهمترین دغدغه خدمتگزارن تالار می باشد و در صورت تکرار این موضوع حساب کاربری، کاربر متخلف حذف می گردد.

اما در پایان و خطاب به همه عزیزان، اعتماد یکی از اصول زیربنائی بهبودی است اما ما باید بدانیم که در زمان و مکان مناسب به افرادی که احساس می کنیم زیربنای روحانی محکمی در زندگیشان دارند اعتماد کنیم.
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اوایل فکر می کردم به همه افرادی که 12 قدم رو کار کردند چه زن و چه مرد می تونم اعتماد کنم. فکر می کردم کسی که مُهر 12 قدمی رو خورده یعنی انتهای اعتماد ولی :
بعدها فهمیدم که اینطور نیست. درسته که 12 قدم اصول روحانی هست که به هر انسانی کمک می کنه تا روحانیت رو توی خودش پرورش بده، اما واقعیتش این هست که باید این اصول رو زندگی کرد نه اینکه فقط آنها رو آموزش دید.
فهمیدم که بیماری ما انسانها به شکلهای مختلف خودش رو نشون می ده و انکار و توجیه یکی از قوی ترین قسمتهای اون هست. متوجه شدم که این من هستم که به دیگران اجازه می دم که از من سوء استفاده کنند و احساسات من رو به بازی بگیرند.
فهمیدم که من هم باید اصولی رو رعایت کنم و حواسم به دورو برم باشه، چشمهام رو باز کنم و مسئولیت اعتماد رو به گردن دیگران نندازم، حماقت و بی ملاحظه گی به خرج ندم و بعد اسمش رو اعتماد بزارم و در انتها توقع داشته باشم کسی از این نوع اعتماد (بی مسئولیتی) من سوء استفاده نکنه.
ضمن اینکه متوجه شدم :
اعتماد یکی از اصول زیربنایی برای زندگی می باشد. در صورتی که هیچ گونه اعتمادی در بین انسانها وجود نداشته باشد هیچ انسانی نمی تواند از انسان دیگر برای دریافت کمک یاری بگیرد.
در انجمنهای 12 قدمی انسانهای درد کشیده ای وجود دارند که عجز آنها در مقابل نقصهایشان آنها را به اینجا کشیده است. 12 قدم به انسانها کمک می کند تا اصول روحانی را دریافت کرده و در جهت کاهش نقصهای خود گام بردارند. هنگامی که ما در قدم 4 شروع به نوشتن ترازنامه می کنیم بعد از مدتی متوجه می شویم که این خود ما بوده ایم که وسایلی فراهم کرده ایم تا دیگران از اعتماد ما سوء استفاده کنند.
در بسیاری از زمانها ما می خواستیم که مسئولیت کارهای خود را به عهده نگیریم و این اشتباهات رو به گردن دیگران بیاندازیم. ما می خواستیم به همان گونه که راحت تر هستیم (بدون تلاش و تفکری) کاری رو انجام بدهیم و در انتها اگر نتیجه متناسب با خواسته ما نبود، دیگران را محکوم می کردیم و می گفتیم آنها از اعتماد ما سوء استفاده کردند، آنها رفتار صادقانه ما را ندیدند و... . اما یادمان رفته بود که این خود ما بودیم که برای فرار از کوچکترین تنش همه چیز را به دیگران واگذار کرده بودیم، ما سعی نمی کردیم خودمان رو به زحمت انداخته، احساساتمان رو کنترل کنیم، دعا کنیم تا راه درست را دریابیم، ما فقط می خواستیم راحت باشیم.
و در انتها باید توجه بشود قرار گرفتن برچسب 12 قدمی بر روی یک فرد به معنی این نیست که آن فرد خالی از نقص شده و ما احساس کنیم که می توانیم بدون در نظر گرفتن بسیاری از اصول به آن فرد اعتماد کنیم. این اعتماد چیزی جزء حماقت نیست و دوباره ما را در چرخه ای از رنجش می اندازد، رنجشی که ما مسئولیت رفتار اشتباه خودمان را به گردن 12 قدم انداخته ایم.
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اینها تجربه هایی بود که من بدست آوردم
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The final phase of the Whampoa  military academy
« پاسخ #1 : 03 ژوئن 2016، 11:55:03 pm »

1949, the Whampoa  military academy three has the advanced thought of the military officer and the Communist Party of the Communist Party of China to obtain the secret contact. These three officers have Whampoa  three students Li Yongzhong,goyard prix, when he was director general of the Education Department of the army, and then a special forces major general Xiao Pingbo,golden goose saldi, there is also a Xiao Bupeng army major general. They quietly reached an agreement in September 8th that the military academy will be held at an appropriate time. At the beginning of 1949 11, Jiang Jieshi second times to the military academy, did not take so much, but vigilance is very strict. 7, Jiang summoned the whole military academy students speak. He put on a black cloak and spoke for only 7 minutes. He said to move to school, but did not say where to move to. But people are aware that there is only one Taiwan,new balance baratas, and there is no place for him. At that time, there was only one Sichuan Province in Southwest China. The liberation of Yunnan, the uprising of Guizhou Luhan. At this time, Xiao Pingbo, Li Yongzhong ready to arrest Jiang Jieshi after the uprising, but Xiao Bupeng put the deduction plan in advance told jiang. Jiang Jieshi sat machine had fled.
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 in Whampoa  in June 1948 23 to July, in Chengdu to pass around the entrance, opened in December 1st. When the war of liberation, the whole situation has seen very clearly, the KMT government in the military and political are already at the end of his rope, is about to collapse.
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 Whampoa  military academy from its inception to the end of only 23. But once it to cultivate a large number of outstanding military talent, the Kuomintang and the Communist Party of a large number of outstanding generals are the Whampoa Military Academy students. Whampoa  military academy 23, although the name is also known as the Whampoa  military academy, but because of changes in the situation,hogan interactive outlet, only in Chengdu enrollment.
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Procuratorate analysis of individual party materials
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1, weak sense of purpose, the masses are not strong.
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 one, learning situation and experience
< p > I call * * *, born in November 1974, January 1992 to participate in the work, join or be admitted to the party in June 2001, university culture, served as teachers, women's propagandists, judicial assistants, prosecutors and police officers and other staff.
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 two, the problem of their own analysis of
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 good evening everyone! I am a student of electronic commerce professional &times; &times; I give you the topic of the speech is "this second is not disappointed, the next second there is hope".
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 I am studying the electronic commerce major, before I do not know to the electronic commerce. Later learned that the use of electronic commerce is the use of computer technology, communication technology and network technology, and e-commerce is a very practical science. With the increasing popularity of the Internet, e-commerce is also very widely used. As long as we have mastered the basic skills, we can increase the bargaining chip for the future work. Learn a skill, lifelong benefit!
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